Self-Help: Quick Empowerment, Healthy Living and
Romantic Quotes
Copyright © 2011 Dr. Joel Akande
Published by Strategic Insight Publishing
ISBN 13: 978-0-9532332-5-0
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“Mediocrity knows nothing higher than itself, but talent instantly recognises genius” Arthur Conan Doyle
“You are the product of the choices that you make”. Dr. Joel Akande
Dr. Joel Akande
“Everything material and anything made from the earth as are human beings is subject to decay and infection. But caution, valuing, vigilance, and careful preservation prolongs life and living”.
Spanish Proverbs
“Things often happen when you least expect them to”
Cicero:
“Diseases of the soul are more dangerous and more numerous than those of the body”.
Norman Cousins
“The more serious the illness, the more important it is for you to fight back, mobilizing all your resources-spiritual, emotional, intellectual, physical”.
Annie Lennox
“I've been through a lot in my life - you know, loss, whether it be death, illness, separation. I mean the failed expectations... We all have dreams”.
Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton
“Refuse to be ill. Never tell people you are ill; never own it to yourself. Illness is one of those things which a man should resist on principle at the onset”.
Jeremiah (The Bible)
“Heal me, O Lord and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved”.
Psalms (The Bible)
“Have mercy upon me, O Lord; for I am weak: O Lord, heal me; for my bones are vexed”.
Psalms (The Bible)
“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I shall fear no evil ...”
Dr. Joel
Akande
“Truth heals. Pure word and undiluted faith
restores”.
Edward Stanley:
“Those who think they have no time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness”.
Alan Thicke:
“There are psychological repercussions to illness and we need a
little more help to get through the effects not only on the afflicted
but on the family. And I think there's even a place for humour in
that”.
“Are we downhearted? No!” English, Anonymous
Jerome Fleishman
“Most of us, swimming against the tides of trouble the world knows nothing about, need only a bit of praise or encouragement - and we will make the goal”.
Soren Kierkegaard
“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards”.
Dr. Joel Akande
“The departed was once a player on earth, which is a stage for all men and women. The deceased is now in the next playing field”.
George Eliot
“Let the soul be assured that somewhere in the universe it should rejoin its friend, and it would be content and cheerful alone for a thousand years”.
Apostle Paul in Corinthians (The Bible)
“O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?”
Revealation (The Bible)
“And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire”
William Wordsworth
“Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendour in the grass, Of glory in the flower, We will grieve not, Rather find strength in what remains behind”.
Ecclesiastics (The
Bible)
“To every thing there is a season, and a time to
every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace”.
Revelation (The Bible)
“And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away” .
Mother Teresa
“I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much”.
Marcus Tullius Cicero:
“Liberty is rendered even more precious by the recollection of servitude”.
American President, Dwight D. Eisenhower
“Americans, indeed all freemen, remember that in the final choice, a soldier's pack is not so heavy a burden as a prisoner's chains”.
Hiram Mann:
“No man survives when freedom fails.
The best men rot in filthy jails,
And those who cry 'appease, appease'
Are hanged by those they tried to please”.
Clarence S. Darrow
“The law does not pretend to punish everything that is dishonest. That would seriously interfere with business”.
Psalms
(The Bible). Note: The following quotes, for ease of reading
and personalising, has been edited and merged as appropriate.
“If
it had not been the Lord who was on my side, if it had not been the
Lord who was on my side, when men rose up against me... Then
they had swallowed me up quick, when their wrath was kindled against
me:
Then the waters had overwhelmed me, the stream had gone over my soul: Then the proud waters had gone over my soul. Blessed be the Lord, who hath not given me as a prey to their teeth”.
Psalms
(The Bible)
“ My soul is escaped
as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and I
am escaped. My help is in the name of the Lord, who made
heaven and earth”.
Proverbs (The Bible)
“I may stumble seven times, but I will rise up seven times...”
Isaiah (The Bible)
“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint....”
Psalms (The Bible)
“Even though I walk through the valley of shadow of death, I fear no evil, for you are with me. Your rod and staff, they comfort me....”
Micah ( The Bible)
“Do not rejoice over me, O my enemy. Though I fall I will rise; though I dwell in darkness, the Lord is a light for me”.
Theodore Roosevelt
“The poorest way to face life, is to face it with a sneer”.
Sir Sydney Smith
“No child is born a criminal: no child is born an angel; he was just born”.
Benjamin Franklin
“He that lives upon hope will die fasting”.
Louis L'Amour
“A wise man fights to win, but he is twice a fool who has no plan for possible defeat”.
Winston
Churchill/General English Idiom
“Give us the tools, and we
will finish the job”.
Otto Von Bismarck
“I must create a system, or be enslaved by another Man’s”
William Blake
“Ambition is the growth of every clime”
Voltaire:
“Work spares us from three evils: boredom, vices, and need”.
William B. Sprague
“Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking”.
Ralph
Waldo Emerson:
“Take
calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash”.
Sophocles
“Everyone lives by selling something”.
Proverbs (The
Bible)
“If you fall to pieces in a crisis, there wasn't much to you in the first place” (From the Message).
English Sayings
“He who dares wins”.
“Bad beginnings have a good ending,”
Lucretius:
“Constant dripping hollows out a stone”.
St Peter (The Bible)
“Prayer without work is nothing”.
Archimedes
"Give me a firm place to stand, and I will move the earth".
Albert
Einstein
“Do not worry about
your difficulties in Mathematics. I can assure you mine are still
greater”.
Aristotle
“The
roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet”.
Aldous Huxley
“The proper study of mankind is books”
Wilma
Rudolph
“When the sun is
shining I can do anything; no mountain is too high, no trouble too
difficult to overcome”.
Benjamin Franklin
“If a man empties his purse into his head, no man can take it away from him. An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest”.
“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us”.
John Heider
“Learn
to see things backwards, inside out and upside down”.
Marva Collins
“If
you can’t make a mistake, you can’t make anything”.
Arthur Wellesley, the Duke of Wellington
“Wise people learn when they can; fools learn when they must”.
Helen
Keller:
"We can do
anything we want to do if we stick to it long enough”.
Proverbs (The Bible)
“For wisdom is a defence, and money is a defence: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it”.
“A wise man is strong; yea, a man of knowledge increaseth strength”.
“And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches”.
“I wisdom dwell with prudence, and find out knowledge of witty inventions”.
“And further, by these, my son, be admonished: of making many books there is no end; and much study is a weariness of the flesh”.
Lord Byron
“Friendship is Love without his wings!”
Soren Kierkegaard
“How I like to be liked, and what I do to be liked!”
Bill Keane
“A hug is like a boomerang - you get it back right away”.
Edith Cavell
I realise that patriotism is not enough. I must have no hatred or bitterness toward anyone.
Ecclesiastics (The Bible)
“Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?”
Lao Tzu
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage”.
Ovid
“If you want to be loved, be lovable”.
Ed Cunningham
“Friendship is the most constant, the most enduring, the most
basic part of love”.
Apostle Paul (The Bible)
“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love
never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!”
George Eliot
“I like not only to be loved, but to be told I am loved”.
David Grayson
“Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so”.
Euripides
“Love is all we have; the only way that each can help the other”.
John Lennon
“Love is the flower you've got to let grow”.
John Keats
“Love is my religion - I could die for it”.
Hear Erwin W. Lutzer:
“I thank God for the way he made you, distinct, special and unique. You were not made from a common mould”.
Charles R. Swindoll
“I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for
that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy.
Let's face it, friends make life a lot more fun”.
Mahatma Gandhi
“I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you friendship. I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you. Let us work together for unity and love”.
Proverbs (The Bible)
“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity”.
Henry Van Dyke
“Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity”.
Erich Fromm
“In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two”.
Dr Joel Akande (Some of his collected sayings)
“Getting to know you was by destiny, being your friend was my own decision, but being in love with you, I could not control”.
“I apologise, I can’t help myself. I can not stop myself from loving you”.
“When I set my eyes on you, I was unsure what to say. When I met you, I was apprehensive you will say no. When I kissed you, I was afraid to let go. Now that I love you, it will be an eternity”.
“Even if you are a thousand miles away, I will always love you. You will always be in my heart and in my dreams”.
“Your love keeps me awake at night; the distance between us keeps me desiring you always”.
“I miss you. In seeing your pretty smile, I miss you. In feeling your warmth, I miss you so dearly”.
“Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder but without your love near me, life means little”.
Andre Mauro
“A marriage without conflicts is almost as inconceivable as a nation without crises”.
Geoffrey Chaucer
“Women desire six things: They want their husbands to be brave, wise, rich, generous, obedient to wife, and lively in bed”.
Anna Kournikova
“There's time for a boyfriend in my life. But he would have to understand...”
Confucius
“When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps”.
William James
“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude”.
Samuel Johnson
“Nothing
will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be
overcome”.
Robert
Heinlein
“Sex without love is merely healthy exercise”.
This doesn’t necessarily sounds like a negative thing, as there are
several relationships in this type of situation”.
Isabel Allende
“For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time”…. . Get the Full Version Now..
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